“I am so proud of myself for not looking like what I have been through,” these were the words of businesswoman Norma Mngoma in a post that seemed to be a response to people telling her how to behave towards her ex-husband Malusi Gigaba.
She continued by saying, “So proud of choosing myself and standing my ground where many expected me to conform. I’m here in this world to play my part not following anyone’s rule. I’ve seen messages on my timeline where people ask me why I did this and that because I was supposed to walk away. Jonga apha we deal with things differently my life is not a book where you just page it the way you want.” She added that she was not a coward and she was ready to fight whether it was a legal battle or otherwise. Norma also said people mustn’t force her to be loyal to people who are not loyal to her. “Why did you do this to the father of your kids? Did you ever ask him why he did this and that to the mother of his kids? Why women must always be the bigger people in situations, you screw me and will screw you and you entire being so that you learn how to treat people,” Norma added. She also addressed those telling her to heal and told them that dealing with what hurt her was her way of healing and they can’t tell her how to heal. The businesswoman said she had no regrets and people should stop sending her messages asking her crap questions, she was healing and moving on at her own pace.